"Ships" and Giggles

The Pursuit of Perfection-ism

May 28, 2021 Cher and Jalen Season 1 Episode 40
"Ships" and Giggles
The Pursuit of Perfection-ism
Show Notes

Perfectionism is usually looked at as a positive trait  but it can lead to negative self talk and behaviors that make it harder for us to reach our goals. Striving for perfection can cause one to feel inadequate as well as feeling like a failure. Is it possible to actually achieve  perfection? We dive into what perfection means to us and how we feel about the pursuit itself. 

Most of us want to achieve success but it does not mean that it has to be done "perfectly". A person that feels like something has to be done perfectly in order for it to be deemed success, won't see the accomplishment as something to be proud of, or a learning experience if it is not done just so. 

We talk about perfectionism and how it looks different to each of us. How do we know or what do we see as perfect? Can someone be perfect or may they are just perfect for you? Is a career or experience really perfect or just perfect for you?